Like some women are into bad boys, several men want fun girls.

Interesting how they are termed "boys" & "girls"? A show of immaturity but good playmates. Playmates go their way when the game is done.

While men & women can learn how to pick up flags...

they won't help if your type is not an appropriate one for LTRs.

In fact the biggest in this case is the so-called victim, man or woman.

You're the centre/core/source of the people you are attracted to. You attract what you are.

Fix? Change who you are.

Change who you are & your type will change.

Externals are useless if you do not fix the within.

Be who you would want for your daughter/sister or son/brother in an LTR if that's the direction you choose.

Otherwise, a playmate you are, playmates you will find.