hey just so you know, as a trans man I fully support lesbians who use he/him pronouns, or anyone else who uses he/him for that matter. pronouns are part of gender expression (similar to clothing for instance) and can be used in a gender non-conforming way.

getting the idea into people’s heads that gender expression is a varied spectrum that people of all gender identities can experiment with, is actually a good thing and helpful to the trans & nonbinary community.

and honestly, anyone who tries to push queer people into neatly defined boxes that they aren’t allowed to transcend has misunderstood the core foundation of our community.