stay away from men who:

1. call other men 'simps' or 'white knights' - they don't respect people who respect women
2. talk about their sexual experiences in graphic, lewd detail - they don't value the privacy and rights a person has to their body, only what THEY can do to it
3. always has awful stories about a woman being 'a bitch' when he was only slightly inconvenienced
4. tells you you should look any kind of way EVER or makes comments that make you view your body in a negative way, even after being asked to stop
5. keeps talking and attempting to provide explanations/reasons of any kind immediately after you say "NO" or "STOP" - these are FULL SENTENCES.

if you encounter any man who does ONE of these things he is NOT mature enough to be trusted in a relationship AND UNSAFE to be around.
things like "oh he only just does one of these things" manifests in the worst ways. "oh it's funny to make fun of XYZ" quickly turns into being inebriated, suddenly alone, and begging for your boundaries to be respected.

It is NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO MAKE A MAN RESPECT YOU.
HE ABSOLUTELY SHOULD ALREADY.

YOU ARE DESERVING OF SOMEONE WHO LISTENS. OF SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT MAKE YOU JUSTIFY YOUR "NO". DOES NOT QUESTION YOUR BOUNDARIES.

THESE MEN EXIST. YOU ARE NOT A TEACHER. YOU ARE NOT A PSYCHOLOGIST. YOU ARE AN EQUAL HUMAN BEING.
You are vastly capable of loving yourself to every degree that YOU NEED. External love IS NOT NEEDED. It is great and wonderful and fantastic and when everyone else is getting it feels lonely and very "why me" - but it leads to accepting less than what you DESERVE.
YOUR BODY IS YOUR RIGHT. YOUR BODY IS YOUR TEMPLE TO LET AS MANY OR AS LITTLE PEOPLE WORSHIP AS THEY PLEASE.

NEVER IN YOUR LIFE DO YOU EVER HAVE TO ANSWER "HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE YOU FUCKED"

MEN WHO PUSH THIS QUESTION ALSO HAVE ZERO RESPECT FOR YOUR RIGHTS TO YOUR BODY.
YOU ARE NOT SOME KIND OF USED CAR THAT NEEDS PREVIOUS OWNERSHIP TRACING. THIS IS FOUL TO THE CORE. YOUR PARTNERS DO NOT CHANGE OR DEFINE YOU.

YOU ARE WONDERFUL and I am so so so sorry for the ridiculous % of us who ever let a man invalidate that feeling!!! BE LOUD!! YOU ARE FREE
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