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The idea of “the one”
Ready for some mind blowing shit? Alright. Here it is. Believe what you want but there is no such thing as “the one” what? Word? Bitch are you sure because the way I feel—-let me stop you there. The way you feel has absolutely nothing to do with the other person.
You see our happiness stems from how we feel about ourselves. Our inner being is our emotional guidance system to guide us towards our desires. Our inner being is proof that we are also part spiritual and not just logic and reason. However when we came to earth the universe was
Aware there would be a possibility we can forget our spiritual identity so that is the purpose of things outside of us. To remind us of happiness, love and abundance. Think of Harry Potter. We placed little parts of ourselves in other individuals so when we meet them (which is
Destine) we can learn a valuable lesson that is apart of our solo journey of growth. So where did the idea of the “one” come from. Human limitation. I’m pretty sure humans made this up do make sense of breakups. The feeling of love is so intense it can make someone obsessive
Which is what we know as attachment. Attachment is the opposite of freedom. We only came here to be free. Yet humans created codependency and wanted to normalize that (marriage) and of course in America let’s profit off of that shit so boom let’s groom them into thinking of
Finding their one! The one to marry! Bind them up and make sure they don’t find other parts of themselves to grow. So am I saying never get married? I mean technically yeah but I understand the world we live in now so I won’t make you feel bad if you are. So then that leads to
The question, if there is no such thing as the “one” then why do we feel this deep connection. Why ARE people happy being together and feeling married? Well because these individuals found a way to have FREEDOM in their relationship. We look for people who are JUST LIKE US.
We look for people who are still connected to their inner being that can show us the way to genuine happiness if we lost it. There is no such thing as NOT loving someone or falling out of love. What we are really saying is the attachment was lessen or it was transmuted
Into hatred which is the negative use of love. Love is all we know how to do which is why people long for it. However if you’re groomed to think your love is dependent on something outside of you, which is the idea of the “one” is why we experienced such heartbreak.
Relationships are meant to bring us back into alignment. To remind us of our personal power and intuition. When you get messages and signs from the universe it’s easy to bounce those ideas/feelings off of another to find evidence. That everyone is what should be logic. Personal
Truth. At the end of the day we are all looking for a home and that home is our inner being. Us. The only person you’re entitled to is yourself. If you keep entering relationships believing they’re going to be your oxygen then expect a lot of headaches. You find yourself through
People to learn and love yourself but in the process you get to help others learn and love themselves. And the best way to do that is by being connected to your inner being. I have so many people who meet me and think I’m their one and it’s really because I remind people of their
Own love naturally because I love myself so much. This isn’t to discourage anyone aka Pisces, Leo, Libra about the one. If the idea of the one makes you happy just check yourself as to why? Is it for genuine happiness to share yourself? Then hell yeah go for it. However if it’s
To make you feel whole when you already are then prepare for a lifetime of heartache. So example of high school sweethearts or people who met when kids. Leo rules love and children. Therefore that taught me it’s important to keep love light hearted and PLAYFUL what do most
People who experienced codependency say? “I’m not looking for anything serious” aka I’m not looking to be bonded where I can’t be me. Everyone is now looking for some level of detachment aka freedom and if the one is real why is that?
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